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WeOnly: Couples & Relationship
Don't leave your closeness to chance
A private journal for the two of you. A daily check-in that takes less than a minute shows when you're warming up — or quietly drifting apart — and thoughtful reflections help you turn it around. On your own, or together.
Free to start · iPhone · English & Türkçe
- Your notes are encrypted
- Your partner never sees them
- No ads, no trackers
- On your own or as a couple
How it works
A small habit with a clear picture
Check in
Once a day, rate how close you felt, tap what stood out and, if you like, add a private note.
See your rhythm
Your history, streak and closeness score show the pattern — the weeks that warm up and the days that drag.
Act on it
Reflections put the pattern into words and suggest small, concrete things to try next.
Daily check-in
Less than a minute a day
Pick how close you felt, tap the moments that stood out — time together, a good conversation, a busy day — and write a note only you can read.
- A gentle reminder in the evening, and a streak that keeps you going
- Missed a day? Fill it in later
- Hide any single day from your partner
Trends
Notice the drift before it becomes distance
History, trends and a closeness score show whether things are warming up or quietly cooling — before it turns into a conversation you've been avoiding.
- The day of the week you feel closest
- Which moments go with your closest days
- Export your statistics as a PDF with Pro
AI reflections
Reflections that explain, not judge
Every week, WeOnly puts your pattern into a few honest sentences and suggests two or three small things to try. The 28-day deep check looks at the bigger picture. Your first reflection is free.
- Only you can read your reflections — your partner can't
- A note is included only if you allow it for that note
Reflections are meant for self-understanding and are not medical or therapeutic advice.
Together
Small rituals for two
Connect with your partner using a one-time invite code — it's free. Then keep the connection going in a few playful minutes a day.
- Draw together on one canvas, live, and keep your drawings in an album
- A moment together — hold your screens at the same time, wherever you both are
- The touch game and the question of the day
Compatibility
Find out what you both want — safely
Go through a list of 50 wishes, from slow mornings to weekend getaways, and answer privately. Only the ones you both said yes to are ever revealed.
- A yes from just one of you is never shown to the other
- Change your answers at any time
Ideas & reminders
Keep it fresh without the planning
Browse date night ideas, save your favourites and mark the ones you've done. Anniversaries and birthdays get a reminder in time, and home screen widgets keep what matters one glance away.
Privacy
Private by design
Intimacy is personal. WeOnly is built so that what you write stays yours.
Your partner sees only the basics
Closeness ratings and statistics — never your notes, tags or AI reflections.
You decide what the AI reads
A note is included in an AI reflection only if you allow it for that note.
Locked with its own PIN
An optional app lock with a 4-digit PIN and Face ID — separate from your iPhone passcode.
Nothing on your lock screen
Reminders never mention your entries, ratings or results.
No ads, no trackers
We do not sell your data or share it for advertising. You can delete everything at any time from Settings.
Pricing
Free to start. Pro when you want more.
Everything to build the habit
- Daily check-in, notes and streak
- Your current trend and recent history
- Your first AI reflection
- Connect with your partner
- Question of the day, drawing and the touch game
- App lock with PIN and Face ID
One subscription covers you both
New subscribers get a 1-week free trial on the yearly plan.
- A new AI reflection every week, plus the 28-day deep check
- Your whole history, filters and PDF export
- Your partner's trend, every compatibility topic and every match
- Unlimited touch game rounds, drawings and every date idea
Monthly or yearly, billed by Apple — the App Store shows the price in your currency. Cancel any time in your Apple ID settings; cancel at least 24 hours before the trial ends and you won't be charged.
FAQ
Questions, answered
What is WeOnly?
A private relationship journal for iPhone. Each day you note how close you felt; WeOnly turns that into trends, a closeness score and reflections, and adds a few things to do together if your partner joins.
Does my partner need the app too?
No. Everything about your own journal works on your own. If you want, you can connect with your partner later using an invite code — connecting is free.
What can my partner see?
Your closeness ratings and statistics, only from the day you connected, plus what you choose to share — drawings, daily question answers and the compatibility items you both said yes to. Your notes, tags and AI reflections are never shown to your partner, and you can hide any single day.
How do the AI reflections work?
Before your first reflection, the app shows exactly what is sent and asks for your permission. After that, once a week the AI reads your check-ins — ratings and moments — and writes a short reflection with ideas for the coming days. Notes are included only if you allow it for that note. You can withdraw permission at any time in Settings.
How much does it cost?
WeOnly is free to download and use. WeOnly Pro is a monthly or yearly subscription billed by Apple; the App Store shows the price in your currency. New subscribers get a 1-week free trial on the yearly plan. One subscription also covers your connected partner.
Is WeOnly a replacement for therapy?
No. WeOnly helps you notice patterns and talk about them; it is not medical or therapeutic advice. If you are going through a crisis or feel unsafe, please contact local emergency services or a professional.
Is there an Android version?
Not yet — WeOnly is available for iPhone.
Which languages does it support?
English and Turkish. You choose the language inside the app, independent of your iPhone's language.
How do I delete my data?
Go to Settings → Delete Account. Your account and everything you have saved are deleted permanently. An active subscription is cancelled separately in your Apple ID settings.
More answers on the support page.
Start with tonight's check-in
It takes less than a minute. The picture builds itself from there.
WeOnly is for adults 18 and over.